How to play it cool

2020-11-08T15:04:42+00:00

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9k4man0 · 2020-11-08T11:48:33+00:00

She could keep her mouth shut

ILovemigos1234 · 2020-11-08T11:56:13+00:00

I’m the biggest victim of that. One thing you can keep in mind is if you let her take over your mind, every move you make after becomes bad. It becomes based on emotions not logic. You’ll find yourself, for example, constantly complimenting her, constantly wanting to hang out, FaceTime, constantly doing things she wants you to do not because YOU want to do them, but because she wants you to, and in your mind, that’ll make her “want you” and stay around. I can make this post 20x longer than this but we don’t wanna read all that. Basically, you WILL 100% eventually lose her and come across as needy, desperate and unattractive to her in a whiff. Keep that in your mind. I’ve fell in the same trap plenty times, and probably will fall into it again right after I type this out.

EDIT: I know this one is oversaid and you probably see this in the comments every other post, but working on yourself and your well being will fit into this perfectly. You’ll begin to love yourself more and care for the things you want to and DONT want to do. Won’t make someone be able to pressure you into doing anything you don’t want to do because you’ll liver yourself more. You’ll be more occupied and won’t have the time to have her on your mind and hang out with her all the time. You’ll have to tell her I can’t today, maybe we’ll do it on xxxx. You’ll be too busy enjoying yourself and having fun being occupied to fall into the trap. With all this being said I will make this mistake again within the next 2 weeks, cheers 🍻

Title	How to play it cool
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	November 8, 2020 11:44 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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