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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
For what I see she seems to have a bit of interest on you so...What about asking her on a date? That would be a good move for you. If you do things right she might show her true colours. If not, move on bro and find another girl you'll like to date.
[–]mudymusic 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
But we're in high school so i'm not sure she has real experience with guys. Thats why i dont want to frighten her by asking her on a date if you know what i mean. Or maybe just keep texting and all and then ask her to meet after the courses but not like a real date ?
[–]Jimmy_Phallon 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
If you like or you're going to have to make a move at some point. Have you thought about asking her to a group outing, like four five or six friends that are all going to meet somewhere to do something. This way you're not committed to a one on one date, but it gets the two of you out of your school environment and into a social environment where you can interact.
[–]mudymusic 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The group outing is a great idea but we really have no common friends to go out with haha.
[–]Jimmy_Phallon 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's really a self imposed limit. You can work around that. Tell her to bring a friend with her, tell her you don't know everyone in the group and it'd be nice to have a familiar face, tell her you have a bunch of cool friend you like her to meet, that's the point of going out to meet new people!
[–]mudymusic 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah you're right
[–]Jimmy_Phallon 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They're two very important things I've learned in life, and believe me I've got a lot of miles under my belt LOL.
1) Most limits are self imposed (self limiting thinking / mindset), so be aware when you're doing that. Ask yourself, is this a real limitation or is this something I'm creating in my head.
2) "Fortis Fortuna Adiuvat" translates to "Fortune favors the bold." Take chances!
Go for it man, you literally have nothing to lose
[–]mudymusic 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ill do. Thank you the advices !
[–]varmaamay 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe take her out to people friendly place? Like a park or something and then build upon that? Looks like she's sort of interested in you man, keep at it!
[–]mudymusic 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah sure i think ill try to ask her out do something like this. It would really be dope :)
[–]White_Mlungu_Capital 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Chase her friends.
Girls of that age are lazy and will judge a man's attractiveness based off what their friends think. If her friends think you are attractive and you can trick them into chasing you (not hard to do with girls you don't like) she will be sure to follow. You need to make her jealous so she will start chasing you, because she will fear losing you.
Also you need to make a move on her, if you get rejected, its cool, chase her friends, she'll come back.
Sounds pretty on point. Thanks
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