Dear Seducers,
It has been too long since my last girlfriend, and I kinda lost my game. I've read through a lot of articles on /r/seduction and put them to good use. These were the steps I took (they may sound objective, so sorry feminists):
Scouting I entered the party (casually late) and greeted everyone I saw. Inmediately got physical with some girls I did not know, and had a little smalltalk. By now everyone at the party has seen your face, and you have seen all the faces. Go for the ones you like, and gradually move down to the other girls. Remember, it is all just a game.
Also note; you want to make a lot of eye contact with the girls, seriously, look into their souls :) It makes you look really confident.
Talking If you want to get a specific girl, you need to win her friends, or you won't succeed. Also, you are the buyer, not the seller, meaning she has to put effort in to get you. You do this by letting her do the talking. Ask short questions, like how did you get here? Notice every detail, and continue on those details.
You want to have something that connects you two, and you can tell to others. For example, last night I had a girl studying law, and I convinced her to be my lawyer. If someone joined us, I'd say that she's my lawyer. This is like claiming territory, he will know what's up.
Tip: you don't want to stay on the same spot for too long, move around and if necessary move her around.
Tip 2: be in the moment, don't think of what might be going to happen, you'll be a much more natural guy.
Tip 3: hold your beer around the waist.
Physical By now it is time to get physical. If all went well, you now have a connection with a girl. While you're talking, be physical all the time. I'm not saying to be creepily physical, but poke her or put your arm around her when talking to others.
Tip 4: When alcohol comes into play, you want to be the one that is slightly less drunk than the girl.
Location Trust me. She will know what's up, and as long as she hasn't pushed you away or was rude, you're set. The trick now is to not give a fuck, seriously. Giving a fuck is the worst thing you can do. You want to get in a private spot with her. Timing here is everything. Let me give you an example: Back with the lawyer girl, I was talking to her and her friends, and her friends said let's get a drink. I convinced them that we would wait here. I told her; "What do you think thats behind that wall?", and she answered playfully: "Let's find out :)". Boom. When you're there, look her in the eyes and kiss her.
This was my strategy for the night, and it fucking worked. Had game with about 3 girls, and kissed with one. I'm not that much of a player, but this shit is legit. I hope this has helped anyone, and I know I might have repeated a lot of stuff that has already been said, but it can't hurt to read it again.
(English is not my native language, please be nice.)
Update: We're going to the movies next friday :)
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