I don't understand this behavior

quinnmcd · 2020-02-17T13:50:46+00:00

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reduser4321 · 2020-02-17T14:59:10+00:00

No dude you should not feel heart broken or anything of the sort in such situations.. What you encountered is known as a "shit test". Women do these shit all the time. All to test your frame or simply how real is the personality that you're portraying to them.The only way to play the game is simply by not playing it, that is, not reacting to it or ignoring it and not showing any sort of emotional distraught. Or you can simply walk away to show them that you don't care as much and approach other women/people.I would advise you to genuinely not care.

Side Advice(but very important):

maintain your frame until it becomes the real you, it's a process. Never put women on a pedestal ALWAYS be your own first priority in life( No selfish) ALWAYS be your own first priority especially when dealing with women Don't be a YES man, learn to say NO when you want or deem necessary Don't be NICE to women be mean in a good way that is,tease them from time to time.it demonstrate confidence and control.But don't be bad,learn the cues of attraction and flirting.(Being a bad boy without actually being bad) AND when they SHIT TEST you don't be heart broken never involve or invest emotions when dealing with women, don't get too deep. This will help you when they SHIT TEST, Develop and understand the ABUNDANCE MINDSET. (Plenty of fishes in the sea) Have self respect it has its own charms learn to WALK AWAY (When shit testing goes to far and become insulting and demeaning what's the use of staying with such people., they're most likely TOXIC and will bring you no good.) Most women are likely to be insecure about their looks, especially those in the extreme corners of the looks department Never or rarely compliment a woman you want to seduce (if you do she knows that you're paying and giving her attention, hence your chances diminish as you won't stand out from the others, especially the very attractive ones. ALWAYS know that when you're paying attention to a woman you're VALIDATING her which pretty much turns your chances to 0. Hence NEVER validate her. Be dominant NOT DOMINATING, control the situation don't put her in a position to make decisions, it's a turn off to them. The more other females talk to or want you, the more you seem attractive to her. ALWAYS REMEMBER if a woman likes or wants you she'll do anything in her power to be with you..Otherwise if she gives excuses its time to MOVE ON(ABUNDANCE MINDSET) or stop investing like you used to.. If you continue to stay in this situation she'll most likely Frienzone you afterwards or find some chad or Tyrone during the time you're waiting for her to come to you. MOVE ON.Success in such cases are VERY VERY poor. NEVER BE YOURSELF when talking with a woman.. Thats complete BS.(be careful about what you're saying, never be too deep or personal.,nothing too internal thats what I meant) Never wait on a woman.. Don't expect too much from her(emotional wise and money wise)you'll probably lose more if you fight for the money lost lol. Practice GOOD POSTURE Don't be afraid to be judged (people judge each other all the time. No need to get/be nervous. NEVER BE INTIMIDATED BY A WOMAN'S LOOKS, there's no need to really.. Look beyond, that is, look at their behavior, personality and mannerisms. ALWAYS WATCH WHAT THEY DO NOT WHAT THEY SAY (The truest shit I've ever heard) Don't be worried because not everyone will like or love you.. And thats completely OK Stand up for yourself Be COMFORTABLE to be an asshole SOMETIMES Be ready for her to leave you or you to leave her.. The ONE does not exist. NEVER run /go back to a woman you left After you break up REMEMBER that she will most likely move on faster than you After you break up Remember that she may be having sex with other guys and that should not bother you thats why I said no emotional involvement or attachments with women After you break up she may not be thinking of you anymore.. Burn every memories of her after break ups and stop giving her attention MOVE ON The time she's with you she may already have an idea of who to be in a relationship with.. Unfortunately it may sometimes be someone near or dear.... The spoiled ones don't have anything soul and don't care about hurting anyone. Master small talk

IT MIGHT SEEM EXAGGERATED. BUT HONESTLY ITS EVERYWHERE. LOOK CLOSELY AND YOU'LL SEE. THIS POST IS AIMED AT A MUCH LARGER AUDIENCE THE SOONER YOU LEARN THIS THE BETTER.

Title	I don't understand this behavior
Author	thevanishingepitome
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	February 17, 2020 1:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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