Not here to bitch or moan but rather if anyone has some advice it would be much appreciated.

I am putting in the time and effort, done the reading, putting myself out there and talking to girls, kino, trying to make them laugh etc.

But I feel like I keep failing to build SOLID attraction, in that, they can leave me after a bit and be completely fine never speaking with me again. Or if I return to her, she will ignore me etc.

TLDR; I need help building strong attraction in general.

About me: I am tall, indian, with "movie star good looks", professionally successful, confident.

I do mainly go for white girls.