Recently I realized something clicked in me. If a girl stood me up or didn't respond to my text, I just didn't care. I think this occurred because I have multiple women in my life and my time is dedicated toward working towards my degree and part time work. I love my job with a passion, and my classes are relevant and interesting. There simply is little room for a relationship, and so when things fall through it doesn't bother me. Breakups don't faze me anymore. I just move on to the next one.

I just thought I'd share my story and see how other people feel. Personally, it feels liberating to not have oneitis anymore and to be able to adapt quickly to new opportunities and situations.