I live in Brazil and I had a gf when I was 14. We had a dificult relationship, we had sex some times, but I think we started dating really early. We broke up when I was almost 15 and since then I never had another gf.

I spent my 3 years of high school (high school is 3 years long here) wanting to have a new relationship. The only girl I had some chance with was a random schizo (not literally, but she was weird as fuck. Like, she was satanist, her father was dead and he was a drug dealer, her step-father abused her, her mother hated her, he watched yaoi as fuck and these things) and she pretended she liked me but in teh end of the day I was in friendzone and she started dating another guy.

I don't really care about the last one or thing about that weirdo, but sometimes I think about my ex and I become very upset, bc she was my only gf and a long time has passed and I am still lonely.

Anyways, now I am studying CS in college and I wanna try hard this time. I wanna solve this question asap. Now I can communicate better, I am kinda handsome, I am smart and I think I really got some qualities. My problem is where I should seek for a gf, what should I do to build a good relationship with her etc. An important note is that I don't want to have an IT gf and my classes will start again in March, if you are thinking about helping me finding a girl in university.

As you prolly noticed, english is not my first language and I really don't want M0554D seeing what I am passing through, so I won't ask ChatGPT to correct me.

If you could help me, I would appreciate.