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[–]deLarg0 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I'm copying pasting what I wrote to some other dude who was a 23yo virgin :)
I was a 21yo virgin and lost it. How do I did it? Well, before getting into game and cold approach I knew I wanted to get laid, so what did I did? I've downloaded tinder, make a good profile and get matched with a lot of girls. I knew that I was gonna suck in the first dates with the first girls, so I kinda accept that as part of my process. First girl on date, sucked. Second girl on date, sucked. Third girl, kinda well and we agreed to a second meetup. In the second meetup I kiss her and on the third one I fucked her. So what you can't take from this? You will suck with girls hahaha but eventually you will get better, it's impossible to get worse.
Months later after getting lots of girls from tinder and a girlfriend I decided to master the cold approach skill. At first I sucked but the more time I was doing it the better I was getting.
You have to understand that you will not be a PUA the first time you are approaching or in a date. If you get out 3 times a week to meet girls and use tinder, I think it's impossible to not get laid in your first 4 months.
I have like 6 months in game and I've seen results. You will learn a lot more by going out than asking questions on reddit to procrastinate or watching PUA youtube videos.
Sorry for bad english, I'm a native spanish speaker :)
Also, don't feel shit for been a 23yo old virgin, if you are taking action that's the only thing that proves that you are alpha. You are a virgin but you decide to make something about it, that takes guts. Been a virgin in your 20s is hard af, but once you break that obstacle there is nothing stopping you :DDDDD
When you lose your virginity please keep us inform :D
[–]highinhibition 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tell us a little bit about your tinder profile. Which pics did you choose?
[–]deLarg0 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I get the part about downloading tinder and wait for the time until i get a match i did tried it but i guess i can say this full confidence that I'm not that good looking because the whole time(6-7months) i used it i got 0 matches and in the end i just deleted it.... But thanks for you suggestion and i really appreciate it 🙇🏻♂️
Sure. It's not the most professional but it can get the job done. I can send you my profile in twitter: @deLarg0
First photo is me and my whole body. Second is a side photo of my face. Third photo is me dancing with an old woman (it is a great photo haha). The rest are me doing fun things (concerts, hanging out with friends, trips).
[–]frizzlefry01 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You go out solo?
[–]deLarg0 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I do daygame cold approach and solo. I usually do like 5 approaches a week, which is very little. But mainly I have the mantality that if I like the girl, I am forced to talk to her. I don't have a lot of time to actually go out for like 5 hours and approach 20 girls. So if I see a girl I like, I am forced to talk to her.
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