Indecisiveness

Helmet_Icicle · 2019-08-09T12:36:22+00:00

First of all, no problem is unique (which is a binary state, nothing is "fairly" unique). You're not special and your problems aren't either.

Second of all, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Analysis_paralysis

You're not learning anything (or escalating, obviously) if you spend too much time choosing. When you never commit to a decision, you're never pushing the limits of your confidence or capability. You'll never find "good enough" if you're obsessing over "perfect."

Have a set of criteria that fulfills your goals. When you find something that satisfies that criteria, you execute. Nothing more to it, anything past that is mental masturbation.

ClownDaily · 2019-08-09T16:24:20+00:00

Everyone has this problem man.

Even if it's the 5 girls numbers you currently have that you're communicating with. "Which one should I text first?", "Which one do I actually wanna hang out with Friday night?", "Should I just drop Brittany or Lisa?"

I agree with /u/Helmet_Icicle in many regards. Women HATE indecision. As much as you don't wanna upset someone for wasting their time or as much as you think someone else might be better, spend a small amount of time assessing if you're actually into that girl and just go for it! No one is perfect, and every girl has something another one doesn't. But that's life.

Are you gonna be successful every time? HELL NO. But you gotta invest some time/effort in someone if you wanna see if it's gonna go anywhere. Focus on the woman in front of you until one if you is clearly no longer into it. You can always come back if something doesn't work out. But you gotta go for her at least a little bit!

Vagabob19 · 2019-08-09T11:20:19+00:00

This is hilarious in 5 levels

Title	Indecisiveness
Author	Djpsychillogical
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	August 9, 2019 11:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/co0z9q/indecisiveness/
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