Initiating conversation

l0rdg00b3r · 2014-11-10T09:32:15+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PjA-tj_d4bo

watch this bro. the bit on AA was pretty nice. i'm in the same boat dude but hope to put the advice in the video into practice

AndroWanda · 2014-11-10T10:43:46+00:00

The problem is you think its unnatural to go up to someone and say "Hi how are you?" In a party setting the current running underneath the tone of the place is "sex, debauchery etc."

Though no one speaks of it, those subconscious thoughts permeate and in turn effect/inhibit your ability to act.

There's no magic bullet to help reduce the nerves. Actually DOING will reduce the nerves.

Practice starting conversations with cashiers/servers. It may seem lame but it'll help get rid of the social anxiety of talking to strangers.

tooeasilybored · 2014-11-10T14:46:10+00:00

My good friend would tell me he will approach a girl anywhere, anytime. I've seen it, he would talk to a girl who has her headphones in. The key, was to be casual, notice the surroundings and make an educated opener. He would always do this "Hi, how are you, I'm Zach. What are you reading and why do you look so miserable?!" Usually the girl is a bit shocked, but then some will actually talk. Then you can follow and ask if shes in school, blah blah and go from there.

People like talking about themselves, you just have to get the idea of you being a creep out of a girls head asap when you talk to her. That way she'll act natural and therefore more likely to carry on a conversation.

The key is to treat women like any other human being, especially the hot girls. They are used to not being approached because people don't think they have a chance with her.

My ex sister would go to a bar with friends and not get a single drink bought for her, let alone talk to a guy. She's a natural beauty that doesn't need makeup to look like a 11/10. To this day she still never had a bf, and she's half way through college.

SexySmexxy · 2014-11-10T18:03:54+00:00

You know, if you go up to a girl and just say "Hi" you won't fucking explode.

It's 10x better than saying nothing and walking past her.

Not going to teach you how to speak to people because I don't do that shit, but if you don't know what to say, just say SOMETHING.

You aren't going to fucking die.

Title	Initiating conversation
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Date	November 10, 2014 6:52 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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