I made the mistake of having my first time with a paid escort. I was so excited to lose my virginity. I went to her place, did the deed, and the entire time I kept thinking, “Wow, I really don’t wanna be here.” It was uncomfortable at best and a miserable experience at worst.
Was it physically pleasurable? Sure, near the end. The entire time the girl kept a straight face and just did what I told her to do, treating it like a business (which it technically was).
Not only did I lose $180 that day, but I walked away disappointed in myself, wishing I had never gone through with it. In hindsight it was utterly meaningless.
Please guys, listen to JP. He’s right. Develop a genuine relationship with your partner. Learn to love them before ever having sex. You’ll regret it otherwise. Or, at least, I did.
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That is some genuinely terrible advice. Look, Jordan Peterson is alright, but I definitely wouldn't trust his advice when it comes to women.
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That thread is literally just a bunch of simps who put too much value into women. You know “put the pussy on a pedestal” Those are the type of guys to send girls a long deep paragraph describing their love for them every night, meanwhile “their girl” is being pounded by a male from r/seduction