Thanks seddit, thanks to this subreddit my whole view on approach completely changed and last night was a great success. Before I used to never even think about talking to random women at bars, now I am more confident than ever.

I went to a music venue with some friends for a going away thing. We were all in a crowd dancing, having a good time, but I slowly started to drift away because it was so crowded, so I found myself dancing by myself. I start looking around and I see this beautiful blonde girl with a tight red dress and we both lock eyes. She looks away and as do I, few moments later, I glance back and she's looking at me again. From what I've learned on here, that means she wants to talk. This is where I nut up, and say to myself "If I look back again and she's staring, I’m going for it".

Third time's the charm, I lock eyes and walk towards her, her whole body shifts and she opens up to me. You have no idea how it felt! Just seeing her body language towards me, made me feel so comfortable. I put my hand on her hip and started a conversation and danced for a moment with her and then parted ways to go back to my friends. It was a small win to see how the things preached on here actually work.

The night eventually ended with a friend of a friend persistently walking with me to catch a cab and I grabbed her number before we parted, another thing I probably wouldn’t have done without seddit. So go out there and practice what seddit preaches because it really does work!