There are basically 3 types of Advice in the seduction community.

  • The natural method. Don't try any tricks. Honest communication is the key. Be vulnerable, show confidence etc. Most people seem to like it.

  • The PUA method. It emphasizes on routines, disqualification etc. This method is usually hated by majority of people.

  • And then there are gurus who tell you to be more successful in life to attract women.

But the thing is there is no absolute correct method of seduction.

  • If you focus on being completely natural, you'll miss those moments when you could've used some old school PUA tricks to spice things up a little bit. You may avoid a situational joke just cuz it is "scripted".

  • If you are blindly using PUA tactics, others will sense it. And there are A TON of situations where you can't simply fake it. You have to show your authentic personality.

  • If you're just trying to be "successful". And your primary goal is money and status. You may end up being more miserable. Ever heard of the guy who works hard to keep his wife only to find out that she's been cheating the whole time? Be a hard worker but don't turn into that guy.

Don't idolize any method. Things you own ends up owning you. Don't hate anything with passion. If you do so, chances are you'll end up doing those things even more.

Keep an open mind. Use a combination of different methods to create your own style. At the end of the day, there is no absolute method. You are the method.

And the only way to discover it is to go out and try whatever you learn. Don't just practice. Focus on deliberate practice. A book/video teaches you through your 4 senses. But actual experience engages all your 10 senses. Through experience you learn things that can't be taught.