So this revolves around a specific situation but I am relatively new to game and have some questions for the community to see where I can be better. I have been talking to a girl I met at a party a few weeks ago and we both recently moved to the same city. About two weeks ago my friend group ran into her and her friends at the bar and we ended up talking for a while. All the time she was touching my arm and being very receptive to me. The next week I texted her asking if she’d like to go get drinks on Thursday and she responded that Wednesday would be better as she’s busy from Thursday - Sunday. I said that Wednesday is usually my later work days and that we can play it by ear, but she seemed excited to meet up.I texted her Wednesday as I was getting off of work and suggested a time and place to meet up. She responded saying that her and her roommates were talking about going get margaritas and that I should join. ( she also suggested to invite my friends too). I pretty much said it sounds fun but I don’t want to go out downtown because I have work early in the morning. I asked when she was free next and she said Monday (today).

My questions from this situation are:

  1. Was me texting for drinks not clear enough that I wanted to go out just us 2 and not have anyone else there? How do I make this more clear in the future?

  2. Is she just not interested if she wanted to do something with other people involved

  3. Should I text her to try and set sometime up for this week today, or wait a bit and text her later this week or even next.

I know having an abundance mentality dictates that you shouldn’t worry about one girl and that being busy and focused on other things is important to not come across as needy. But also being confident and making the first move is equally important.

Honestly just conflicted on how to proceed and looking for feedback on how I can improve. Thanks in advance to all my fellow PUAs.