I remember reading a post on another website basically about ways to improve your game right now etc. One tip really stuck out at me and it was "having too high standards" and said I was bullshitting myself by not approaching girls who weren't attractive enough. Something like "if she was naked in front of you you would have a boner"

Also if it helps the website also had an article about a guy writing a post in a coffee shop and then chasing after her down the street to approach her and kept repeating something to the effect of "it's not about her, its YOU"

I know it's kind of vague but hopefully you guys can help me out because I'd really like to read it again