Hi guys,

I dated a girl for some weeks and things went pretty good. It was really close to a relationship or at least felt like it, but we never really talked about it. I dont know if this was a mistake, but I think not. We were pretty close in an emotional way so I never thought this was a necessary step to take. Just let it happen, you know?

Then we went for a vacation with a friend [m] of mine and a friend [f] of here. And here the problems began. Our behaviour towards each other was suddenly way less intimate. I think we both were pretty insecure how to behave in front of our friends. In addition to that we had almost no time alone. It just felt like im losing her over the days, but I didnt know how to stop that.

Now we are back home and it feels somehow wrong. I dont know how she feels about it. When I ask she says everything is fine. But that's not true. What can I do now?