Okay so, long story short, there’s a guy in my life who is sending me mixed signals. It’s like if I’m having a bad day he is always trying to cheer me up, and has even said that if I were to start crying he would need to leave because he wouldn’t be able to deal with it. We have incredibly amazing conversations and he’s just super easy to talk to and we have a lot in common. The mixed signals part comes in when he basically friend zones me when I tell him thank you for listening to me and letting me vent, but then he will hug me and flirt with me. What is going on!!? Is he just being a really nice friend and I’m just reading everything VERY wrong or is he just unsure of how to feel about me? Should I make a move and be more aggressive with my motives, or just let it ride out and perhaps friend zone him?

I’m so sorry in advance if this made no sense...there is so much more to this story but I’m not going to share that due to fuck ass people’s judgement and his privacy...even though I highly doubt he’s on Reddit.