My best friend and i were at the bar friday night with a bunch of friends and the whole time we were there he kept looking at his phone and asking me how to respond to some girl he was trying to hook up with who happened to be at a different bar in town. I eventually told him something bad to say and of course she never text him back. How do i get him to be sure of himself and stop asking everyone around him what to say without making him feel pathetic?