I have to say style gets you attention. I'm going to start taking it a lot more seriously now. I went punk and it get's me attention. Ripped jeans, denim jacket with labels, and a colorful shirt. It's all about how you dress. I'm 5'10 at 165lbs. I use to wear close that just fit and nothing that stood out. I dressed classy though and still got approach signals. If you want certain type of girl dress a certain way.