So, im getting kinda frustrated at myself currently. Ya see, I know that being thirsty and horny all day wont attract girls, but on the other hand, Whenever I think about asking some girl out, I always shy away from it because of this deep- seeded notion Ive held for years...

I have always been very aspurger ADHD throughout my life, and Ive always embraced it. (I had very poor social skills and got in trouble often, and occasionally threw fits in elementary school) But nowadays in high school, When I have better social skills, self control, and affect, I always kinda got the feeling that I was never really dateable. After my reputation solidified over the years. Like, whenever I shy away from asking a girl out, I think “ shes probably gonna say no and look at her friends like, why is *he asking me out lmao, Or, aww how cute, he tried to ask me out.” You follow...?

Like, I get the vibe that Im not taken as seriously as other boys in regards to being a sexual partner. I have friends and girl-friends who take me seriously, of course. But... do you get what Im trying to convey.... Any advice on this phenomenon is welcomed.