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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Get a date man. Just you and her, friends shouldnt be involved in this initial date.
Do that, escalate on the date (hold hands, and kiss if you can).
That is the only way to know if she likes you/
Judge people by their actions, not words (Law of power).
IF she doesnt turn up - she doesnt have that much interest. If she does, she is interested because she already asked you if you like her, so she obviously likes you.
If you need any more help, let me know.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thats the thing man, shes kinda hard to read..still has a thing for her ex (this just popped up outta nowhere) so theres that...why are women so complicated!? I was thinking about just not talking to her for a little bit, however, would that close the small window of opportunity I think I had?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont talk to her about her ex. If she tries to do that then change the subject, in person just act not interested. Like i said, get the date. As for reading her then that is impossible. Just escalate in small steps (hold hands first), thats the only way to find out.
[–]JadowArcadia 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah go for it... She wouldn't be making this effort if she wasn't interested
[–]dodged_that_one 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you like her? If not, then move on. It's easy to feel reflected attraction - you liking her just because she is showing an interest in you (especially if she was previously hostile).
I have to say, I'd be a little suspicious that she wasn't just being a bitch. Could be she "hated" you because she liked you and couldn't express those kind of feelings, or she might have not liked you and still not like you and have something harsh planned. Depends on how mature she is.
Im interested..I had a thing with her best friend years ago and she brings it up from time to time...however, her best friend has a boyfriend now so yeah.. I dont think she'd go through the trouble of planning something harsh lol..at least I hope not.
Iv'e always hit on her in a joking manner, but she always brushed it off ....until recently. Which peaked my interest.. But now I sense that I missed my chance being even deeper in the dreaded friendzone.
[–]dodged_that_one 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In that case, I'd do what you've always done. Hit on her a little and take things a little further and a little further. Implicitly dare and tease her.
[–]reddittor22 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if you like her: ask for a date.
girls usually backward rationalize why they shouldn't date you etc. because they don't like the fact that they like you and because they want to screen out wrong men.
when she mentions stuff like you are not alike, tell her that this is one of the reason you decided to give it a shot, you don't like hanging out with your shadow... you want someone different good luck
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