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[–]i4gotmybrain[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Should i get her whatsapp right now?
[–]BrownGuyKnowsNothing 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep !! Directly set a time and place after 8 and Enjoy the date !!
[–]ManyCountry 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont think to much. Go for it
[–]ElijahBurningWoods 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
For you're next match I advice you to move away from the datingapp way faster. Ask for her whatsapp, not her insta/fb. Just text for logistics and enjoy.
[–]i4gotmybrain[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Should I just ask for her address? or arrange to meet at a pub?
[–]itsdamack1 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't ask for address until you've secured a date and you're ready to pick her up, any other time just sounds creepy.
[–]i4gotmybrain[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yeah I don't have a car. very close to the city. I'm really trying to figure out whether she's ok to bang right now at her house or if we need to go to a pub first and I'm not sure how to ask.
Needless to say this situation hasn't happened before to me
[–]itsdamack1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even if she is down to fuck right away, I'd take her to pub first, start off with a nice "meet and greet" type thing.
[–]treatsndentalsticks 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want to fuck her and don't want her at yours go to hers and escalate.
[–]Ryden7 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I haven't had success # closing over Tinder, is that because I'm not building enough rapport first? They usually just go cold or don't respond.
Usually it's after a few days or more of chatting.
[–]i4gotmybrain[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
like I said this is very unusual for me. usually there will be a few hundred words of conversation before getting her number, then a few hundred more before the date.
Update: We had a whatsapp convo. she sent a couple of photos about her hometown. Seems to like me. I then took a risk:
ME: What are you doing today?
HER: Studying. you?
ME: Cleaning. Could come over now if you're down
HER: down? you mean at uni?
HER: haha sorry i am not completely sure of my location point according to yours
ME: I live just up the road like 3 bus stops away. There's nothing to do here lol
ME: Do you want to hang out at yours or meet in a pub? There's the <pub> in <her town>
HER: I'm studying at the moment
HER: but I can see you for a couple of hours
HER: when I will take a lunch break
HER: if you're happy
HER: like from 2 til 3
ME: oh I can't get to you that soon. Let's make it tomorrow at 7!
ME: are you in exam season?
HER: yeah
HER: that's better
HER: no, dissertation season hahaha
I made a couple jokes about exams so I think she's still into me. Still not sure how to read what she wants. Tomorrow I'll ask if we're still meeting and ask for her address then.
[–]footfetishmaniak -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
bro good luck. rack that bodycount up - its all experience bro.
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