I am crushin on this lovely young woman (HB9) and I've sort of put her on a pedestal. I don't hang out with many people exclusively, I'm selective with my friends is the likeliest reason for that. We see each other a lot, and we have cool moments of eye contact and singing together (she's been doing some vocals on a musical album I'm working on) and when we sing we lock eyes and it really jogs the feels.

Anyway, because I've sort of put her on the pedestal, I need to start bringing her off of it, I feel, to initiate more Kino. It has been hard with her to be smooth. What are some good ways to help 'get her on my level'?

I'm fairly new to this sub, but by the sounds of it, I've pretty much nailed the shit tests. Things like that I've handled well, but I fear I may be becoming too accessible.