I always had things really bad for me with women in general. Not that I was a jerk, but just was so quiet and not so outgoing that I got really nowhere. As I grew older, well, things still sucked but not as bad. Now Im way more confident in who I am. My Inner game is very good, and I made a couple of female friends which I never had. I am not sleazy but one of them seemed to hit things off with me as we were very similar to each other unexpectedly . I gave it weeks thinking this would turn out to be another failure of mine, however, she seemed to really like me so I stuck with it. Eventually, I noticed that she might like me a bit more than a friend as it started to seem more obvious. She was very different around me and showed things she just didn't do around others as I had mentioned before.

My huge turn around was when I asked her to get food/coffee. It was not a rejection, but she said maybe as she was extremely busy, but could not due to time constraints. I felt better as I actually did something and tried to put myself out there,not just let an opportunity pass me by

I am really looking to build more rapport, I guess is the word. I could always improve so called inner game, but I need to improve relationships and dont really know where to continue and could use help.