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Problem: The Dance Floor Hook Up

red_foot · 2011-03-26T06:23:35+00:00

I've been having trouble with my dance floor reception for a long time. I'm a crazy good dancer, but girls seem to run from me when I get up...

red_foot

March 26, 2011

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Title	Problem: The Dance Floor Hook Up
Author	red_foot
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	March 26, 2011 6:23 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gbt6i/problem_the_dance_floor_hook_up/
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If you are a good dancer, you probably should stop. hahaha. Seriously, though, if you are one of those really good hip hop dancers, you should save that shit for when you are not sarging. Break dancing, pop locking, and whatnot are cool and some guys love to be the center of attention but this can just block girls from approaching you.

You want to just sway from side to side and do a couple cool moves here and there and, most importantly, break into their little group and have fun with them. I usually just land right in the middle of the group and usually one girl will start grinding me and then will usually bend over and play with me in a funny way for the group. I will then slap her ass in a funny way and bounce around the group until I isolate my target.

Realize that in my game I don't use any crazy dance move that i've spent months perfecting. It's all just swaying back and forth and standing there a bit when she grinds. I'm usually moving my arms and turning her a bit. Kino, kino, kino... that's all.

No dance experience necessary. All the escalation is helped by my body language and how I look at her and the confidence I use. I'm a sexual threat but it has nothing to do with dance. It's about being in alpha state.

Just crashing her little group by myself speaks volumes especially when it's contrasted with the dozen chodes standing around gawking.

[–]DoceVida 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Having said all that above, here's a hint for you all people out there that want to show off a bit (not really necessary though!). I throw a bit of traditional latin moves when dancing and I may even do a double/triple pivot spin to show off every now and then. Maybe some body rolls. I will then return back to the side step. These little bursts of latin steps are a way I set myself apart from all the other chodes. I'm not doing it all the time but you can tell that I am an accomplished dancer without me breaking out into a big dance routine or in your face dancing. Like I said, it's 90% sway and attitude in opening the sets and not just standing there.

Also, the fact that it is latin steps danced to hip hop or trance really is a distinction. If I did hip hop steps, it would just blend in. I use unusual dance moves because it makes me unique. Try it. I swear to god you can merengue to anything. Field tested.