Last night, while I was dancing with the girl on the dance floor for like 5 minutes, she leaned in for the make out and I playfully backed her with the hand like "not yet" to project myself not so attainable, build up some tension and generally make it a bit more fun. The goal would be to make her think why doesn't he want to kiss me, etc. What do you guys think is this good thing to do or it's actually prolonging the chance to take it to the next level?