I have a quick question for you guys about LTR's and how to initiate them. My main question is whether I should be the one to ask her to be my GF or if she should be the one to ask me. The reason I'm confused is they both make logical sense. If I ask her, then it comes to the idea that I am choosing her, which is one of the aspects we try to play to when getting girls. On the flip side, I have heard many PUA's talk about how the girl needs to be the one to emotionally invest herself first, and by her asking me it would play to that effect. Thoughts? (This is a hypothetical situation, was just thinking about it in the shower this morning).