What's up seddit, I'm a beginner here and I wanted to know what the general consensus is on friends. Today, for example, one of my closest friends will be having a family party for his birthday, but at the same time there are other events I want to attend tonight, like play in a basketball game and a small party my other friend is having.

Which would be more beneficial for my self improvement? Pursuit the more social events, which include my passion for basketball and the chance to meet new people, or be a good friend and go to my friend's family party because it's his birthday?