Recently I've noticed a pattern with the girls I date, I have the completely hooked in the beginning but then I notice MYSELF being needy, and at that point it's obviously too late. I even choose to actively break up with this girl before she said anything, and I just asked "Im too nice right?" she said 'Yes". She also said her feelings shifted to more of wanting to be a friend after a few weeks. Basically, I need to fix this shit as fast as possible so I can work on actual game. I got another 2 girls that want to have sex with me, so I want to keep them around as sexual partners and not have this happen again. The most brutal and hardest way is best, rejection and bitch-hurtness is very motivating for me, so any recommendations on killing this out on the field and reading material back at home would be appreciated.

Also, I read the top 3 posts on neediness, didn't really have clear things to do.