So... You realized that getting girls is not going to happen by being in the couch all day.

You realized that coming out with those sharp arguments on why the cool guys are dumb and how then the girls are dumb for not getting with such an intellectual as you, solved nothing. After all those cool kids still have the girls while you only get bitter and bitter.

Then after reading a bit you got to move. You started to be cleaner. Started to exercise. Updated your wardrobe. Smell good. Now you even have a routine. You even floss your teeth every day. And you smile at yourself when looking at the mirror. You feel you still can get better. But you're working on you.

Then you improve your social stuff. And throw your smiling self into the world.

And our lovely ladys notice you. And it feels so good to have some of their attention. Not all of them stare at you, but quite a few do.

Then you approach some of them. And you succeed. You get their numbers. Talk with them even date some.

But you fail. Despite that you are doing your best, you still crave for sex. You think you managed to not to appear desperate. But there are details. Something little. And women can sniff neediness like dogs fear. They feel it. No matter how much you try to hide, no matter how perfect you fake it. They always feel it.

And the cure to it? Reject someone!

Indeed. At this point you'll be plenty of women who won't ever let you into her panties but will try to use you for their needs.

That present a lot of gold opportunities. Pick one of them and one day reject her. At her minor disrespect. You just stand up and walk away. Smile and say, I'm wasting my time here. Whatever. Do it.

The point is you are doing this FOR YOU. Not to please the women of the world. You should be free. You're a man. You can live without women.

If PUA stuff made you forgot about the problems with women and made you think about the (bigger) problem of improve yourself, then you're in the right track in my opinion.

You win the game not when you are able to get any woman. You win when you get a better self. One who you are comfortable to be. The one who's free.