A lot of posts are either explaining that you need to make a connection, stay one step ahead, and create mystery. I'm good for the first 2, but when you're at the point of shitting with the door open, wheres the mystery? Personally, I've started to close the door when I use the rest room, but my wife still leaves it wide open. What are other ways to create mystery in a long term relationship? Also, any tips for getting better at seduction while in a committed relationship? Being more social is one thing, but how do you practice your charm, without being shot down ten times a day by the one person you have to sleep with?