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[–]Joynx 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
sometimes you just gotta go for it. be bold. i've noticed that it's worked well for me. if you flirt a little bit during the beginning of your trip, you can gauge if she might feel the same way. and if she does, later on in your trip, do something bold with her. kiss her when you walk her back to her room or something. good luck king 👑
[–]TheJokerr23 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh i should definitely do that but the problem is that i don't really know how to flirt and if i decide to act natural i won't try anything. I have my personal technique which is based on the only time i actually succeeded in séduction. Before lockdown i met a girl who i liked but i was convinced that it would never work because she was Too perfect and often rejected boys so what i did is that i did everything with second degree (it is easier when you are shy like me). I acted like i was crazy in love, sending awkward love messages and memes at 3am and guess what it worked (i would never have imagined that) but funny fact she told me her feelings one day before lockdown so nothing happenned (gods have a weird sense of humour don't they) and i cant stand long distance relations so i ended it and this was my only "experience" But this kind on technique worked so well that i wonder if this works in all situations and should i stick to it to "flirt" and if not what do i do
[–]TheJokerr23 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In a nutshell i don't really know how to flirt hahaha
[–]throwaway_enterprise 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don't be needy.
Be fun and sociable and make sure that she always sees you.
Find ways to be alone with her at night time/after the party. Pull her physically if you have to.
Make a move.
I wish I was young again knowing what I know now lol. This shit is so easy in those kinda party holiday. 💜
[–]TheJokerr23 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for the advice 😊
[–]TheJokerr23 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
but i'd like to add that she is a shy girl so maybe flirting won't work i don't know
[–]throwaway_enterprise 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shy girls just need more time and trust
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