I don’t think she is playing games as she is not the type of girl to do so. I also knew her before I asked her out. It’s her texting and level of interest that confuses me. She goes to university and I won’t be seeing her for about 3 months. I’ve not gone on a date with her yet, she has invited me down their to drink but I want to go on a proper date first.

She initiates with texting every now and then but then once I reply she reply’s back with something that always ends the conversation like “hahaha that’s great” why even start talking when she doesn’t want to talk? It’s also hard to get to know her she seems stiff as though she doesn’t want to tell me anything and I want to no everything about her! We hardly used to text before I asked her out as she has a boyfriend. But it was going well for a while and now it seems to have dyed down. I just want to go on that date with her and see how it goes. But I feel like I must keep in contact over this period but she’s it making it hard. When she puts something it’s like she’s putting it just for something to say to me most of the time.

I’m thinking of not contacting her for a while, I guess we don’t have anything to say to each other until she comes back. But silence for 3 months, I don’t want her to think I’m not interested. To be honest though my interest has gone down a lot because she’s just acting so reserved all the time and it feels like she doesn’t want me to talk to her. But then she will keep initiating every now and then. Also with Valentine’s Day coming up I don’t no what to do. At first I was thinking of sending flowers down to her room at uni, then I was just going to say happy Valentine’s Day but now I don’t know. Will it upset her if I say nothing or do nothing. Or will it seem creepy if I do something. She is a really shy girl as well so she is hard to read.