Thats my game structure.

Open - Deliver intent. - Frame, have congruent body language and be genuine. - Show curiosity about her.

Establish some comfort and vibe. - Balance questioning and listening. - Use why and how questions instead only relying on factual closed questions. - Use assumptions. - Use some comedy when opportunity arises.

If conversation goes down, I default on one or two routines (NLP, Cold read, Cube, Strawbery field).

Connection - Tell her a story. - Talk about what you are passionate about.

Then I acknowledge that she is unique and she made me feel better.

Then do some compliance test. For example, move to a new location, give you her phone number or ask her more personal questions.

Somewhere things go wrong and I dont know where.