Don't worry I'm not gonna whine about how unfair life is. I'm actually the happiest I have ever been. I'm having a good amount of dates. I go to different clubs every now and then, meeting interesting and fun people. I'm okay with not being able to hook up with a different woman every weekend. I'm happy with being a little weird and introverted. But there are times were I'm constantly in bad luck regarding seduction. And I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong. People tell me I'm attractive. I'm not super tall or muscular. But I'm a fit guy of average height. I'm educated, work a interesting and well paid job. I'm able to hold a conversation and make eye contact. And still I'm not able to escalate most of my dates into something sexual. It's like I forgot something. Like I went fishing and forgot to put bait on the fishing hook. It's frustrating and I don't know what the bait is I'm missing.

Maybe tinder and clubs are not the right place for me? I'm also interested in art, books and politics but those are not really hobbys that get you out there, right? Maybe I'm just overthinking it and shouldn't put sex in the center of my life. But how can't you, when you are not having sex?

I don't know what I'm expecting from this post, but it felt good writing it down.