Hi seddit, I turned 18 recently and decided it was time for a change. From ages 12 to 16 i had self-esteem issues, but i worked them out and learned to love myself. 16 to 18 although i had now relatively good self-esteem, i was scared of approaching because of what the girl might say to me or people seeing me failing at pick up and laughing about me.

The year leading to 18 i just gathered as much info as i could about all the aspects of my life i wanted to change. I turned 18 and started taking action. I am a skinny , Ok looking guy that was always thinking of reasons not to approach, but i decided i wanted to be with hot girls. RSD videos really helped me , but at the beginning i was still scared to take action.

Then i realized i am turning my life around for the best in every single aspect, i am getting better everyday. And most important people do not give a fuck who you are or what you do with your life, they have their own lives to worry about.

I finally just said Fuck it , and started approaching. some girls dissed me and i did not care, because who the hell are they to judge me, and really who cares?

I started approaching only very recently ( when i turned 18), my game is still horrible because as soon as i start a set i forget all those rsd vids i watched. but it has been getting better, and most girls if you actually take action will just stop and talk with you.

tl,dr changing my life around, learning pickup, started taking action , Loving every single minute of my life. And not giving a fuck.