So to preface, I'm a 20 yr old male, and live on a college campus in a fraternity house. I'm a virgin, and the type where if I tell someone I am I'm met with disbelief. I've always struggled with my self image, am introverted and introspective, tend to overanalyze, and have a unique sense of humor. I consider myself pretty anxious, and I tend to feel a pang of dread every time I think about the idea of being in a social situation trying to chase girls. It's mostly a mix of fear and anticipation with the fear coming from what people will think of me and what people expect from me. I'm also generally a pretty indecisive person.

What's making me struggle is that every day I walk around campus, go to the library, go to class, or go to parties, I see countless attractive women. To put it more simply, I see hella tits and ass that I'd love more than anything to be a part of, but find myself consistently frustrated when I can never actually achieve that.

What I'm asking is if there's anyone who shares in that struggle with me, and what you've done to combat it. When it comes to one on one, I'm good at recognizing cues and have great convos with unique types of people, but lack the instinct to know when or how to make the move that'll inevitably lead to me getting something. If anyone on here has any advice or feels the same way I'd love to hear what you think.