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[–]CrankRED 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
well, then, ?, we should meet for a drink next week.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But wouldn't it be better if I escalate the mood first and get her warmed up, etc? We've not talked to each other for like a week and I personally feel like I need to break the ice to get it going again.
[–]CrankRED 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i dunno my text game philosophy is: only use it to set up dates
maybe your escalation will help, maybe she will see it as needy/confusing. tone is impossible to convey in texts so i dont . your whats your name thing got you to a place where neither of you knows whats going on.
i say: just ask her out, but maybe wait to hear what the rest of seddit says.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah I was trying to find something to make her loosen up and I settled on that (might not be the best decision in hindsight since it's still not working)
[–]crying_giants 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me: <opener> Her: <response> Me: What's your name?
Me: <opener>
Her: <response>
Me: What's your name?
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