Hello,

Here is my small story. I went to a date with a young women ( 21y old) while i am 29. I came to meet her next to my job and i ask her number. Following couple of exchange, she wanted to meet me for a drink.Just before going she sent me a message saying : "Warning, i justs want to let you know" which actually pissed me off a little bit

We went to a bar but i took a limonade because i do not drink alcohol as it is not good for me but it not provide me from enjoy the conversation. Yet she asked me many times why i was not doing it..etc

It seemed to happen pretty good during night ( planned to go to dance together another day during the conversation) ,.. Etc until i started to push a little bit regarding his boyfriend asking if it was that serious with him and she says that she would not stay with him as she leaves the country during the summer but kept insisting that it was ok. I just wanted her to say that he was not that important.

I admit that i was a bit needy while talking and that she may have noticed. I wanted to go fast and go straight to the point and not having to go to another or third date before coming conclusion or ejection.

When we left each other, the energy was bad : Nothing to say, silence.. Etc

Is my non drinking way of life an issue for dating ?
Why do you think she send me that message 5 min before date informing me that she has a boyfriend?
What do you think of it ?