When a girl doesn't respond to your text, send that shit again. I don't usually get silence, because I am a witty motherfucker that has his shit together. But I got silence today because who-the-hell knows why? I see turd posts on here all the time trying to dissect why they're not getting responses so here's my 3 cents.

I'm not a moron and only text when I wish to give or get something. I met this girl on Saturday, she's likeable, I found out she's here on holiday to visit family. I text her at 9AM & thought she didn't respond because she thought she was hot shit (she's right).

I waited til 6 and sent that same shit again, and she responded right away. We went out tonight and had all the sex. Maybe some women just need chased, or validation that you're the type of guy who goes and gets what he wants. I don't fucking know why, I'd ask but they don't know either, but if they did they'd likely lie.

The point is- I make them tell me no. I'm not the guy you ignore, I respect myself enough to feel I deserve a response, especially if her response is "I'm not interested," because I need to hear that shit. When I get rejected it confronts me with the reality of my situation and exposes my weaknesses.

If she didn't respond to my resent text I would have called her, and if she didn't pick up I would have left a message. If she didn't return the call, I would call who I met her through and ask them to have her call me at her earliest convenience. If that didn't work I'd text her again and let her know it was her last chance to get to know me.

I think you'll find like I have, that silence is not "no" and sometimes, like today for me, if you expect results you'll get them more often than the huge disrespect of having her ignore your existence.

If she doesn't respond, just tell yourself- She gave me her number & I want her to know me because I'm a swell guy who thinks she'll fancy me if I give myself the opportunity.