Hey reddit, first of many posts, but here is one of my problems. I'm thin. Like stick thin... Like if I'm standing shirtless you can easily see my rib cage. I have been thin all my life and have tried multiple times to workout but have had medical reasons why I can't. My problem is that I live in southern california where all the women have my build and obviously want a tall stud (I'm like 5'9" ish). These insecurities not only drag me down when talking to women, but also stop me all together. I have been told I'm handsome and cute when is comes to my face and eyes, and I keep myself clean and groomed, but I put a majority of my focus on my intellect, emotional strength and understanding (for an eventual relationship). But whenever I look around, I feel like everyone is out of my league. Any tips about how to dress or carry myself would be greatly appreciated!