Tinder Text Management Advice

runningmanmt · 2019-01-30T19:58:23+00:00

The top comment on this thread is gold: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9f1uac/dont_ever_forget_this_on_tinder/

I find the tinder msg game pretty easy and formulaic: opener > a couple clever jokes > challenge her to a date > give her your # and tell her txt you if she's serious > a couple txts verifying the time/place of date > date. Being snarky/sassy/clever is key, as is not asking questions. Try to make her giggle and ask about going on a date within only a few msgs. If she's interested, she'll take ya up on it. If she ghosts or hesitates, whatever, move on.

That thread above has much more detail, but I basically follow that guys formula and can get dates/phone #'s with ease. Unforntunately, Ive exhausted my local tinder pool (live in a small college town; gotta wait for a semester change!).

mrblackjapa · 2019-01-30T11:31:42+00:00

Can it be that maybe your doing to much comfort building, it’s a dating app known for quick hook up in a sexual way , you match , chat , exchange clever banter ask for Facebook or instagram to see if real . She doesn’t want to she’s not trying to match and just playing or catfishing . Then ask out . They say no good free up time to focus on other potential real matches . I used to dm girls on instagram for self amusement the text would go on and on tell they were like my girlfriend texting them all the time , too much work . To be just playing so just weed out the jokers early.

Throwssay12345 · 2019-02-01T01:16:30+00:00

It depends if you practice monogamy or not.

Pick out 3 you've connected with most. Stop swiping for the time being and inform the others that you've met someone. Mention that if things dont work out you'll reach out. Get to know those 3 better. Meet them in real life. If things work out pick 2 out the 3. If things keep going good pick 1. See how to goes. If things go sour keep swiping. That's how you manage. Women don't want to be toyed around with. Holding onto to many matches/conversations isn't healthy for you or them.

Title	Tinder Text Management Advice
Author	PYA96
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	January 30, 2019 8:47 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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