Hey, I am a 20 year old 5'6" half-korean half-israeli (3rd gen) attending a large college on the east coast. I have a reasonably attractive face, and I am athletic (soccer/tennis/flag football) and have started going to the gym regularly for the past two months. I have never had a kiss or been in a relationship or had any sexual experience.

Confidence-wise, I feel pretty good. I have been working on my social skills as much as possible, although I am naturally quiet I do my best to come out of my comfort zone. However, when I talk to girls, I feel like I come across as the type of guy that could never be more than a friend. I'd love to get some sexual experience this year, but I honestly do not know where to start. I have some close male and female friends, but they never talk about sexual topics and honestly they are kind of nerdy and we don't have a TON in common. I feel like there are some people that hookup/have sex/have flings, and I feel like I don't get a lot of attention from girls.

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I am constantly trying to self improve even though I am quite nervous, and I want to take the steps to get some experience in the sex/relationship/hookup area of life.

Even just referring me to a key thread or two to look at is super useful, thanks for the help

Edit: I also have played guitar for about 4 years, and I am not afraid to introduce myself to people at parties/social situations, but have trouble doing so in classes.