So i need realistic advice on what to do, every answer is appreciated & i'll read all of it. Basically, i got in a situationship with a girl for 5 months (we were messing around in that period as well) also her first bf broke up with her at the time i got into her life and she was mourning the ex and their relationship almost daily on her stories, then we decided to be in a relationship for like 2 weeks 4 months later after talking around daily, i did fuck up a bit while we in a relationship (nothing major like cheating) that could've turned her off or lowered her feelings toward me, she then told me that she wants to be free, and she wants to message whoever she wants and do whatever she wants & i can do the same as well, but she insists that she loves me but doesn't want a relationship right now and insists on us being friends for now and maybe later something else will happen (she never mentioned a timeframe), we have been texting for a month now daily and never meeting just because i feel like shes avoiding meeting me to not be seen by her friends cuz she told them that we aren't together at this time, i feel like i got used as a rebound but she kept insisting and swearing that she loves me and that shes not using me to get over her ex, and sometimes i think some of my actions just made her lose some interest from me, now whats the best course of action to do? I really love that girl and want her back, and i want her to stop talking to other men and choose me, meanwhile i feel like if i stay in this phase any longer it just lowers my dignity, any advice is appreciated and if theres any questions ill answer them.