What Happened?

Aightmandowns0101 · 2020-05-23T21:16:47+00:00

Well 1stly I feel like everything went so fast like there's no chill. It became from a simple hey, to wanna meetup?, to ''I hope we don't friendzone'' in a matter of hours. She's either forcing herself to 'move on' from her divorce, It's kind of an impulsive move.

Then the meetup came and she just didn't feel right, I mean she is still talking about her ex, and idk how much you know about him (the more the worse). Maybe she feels guilty? or she just doesn't feel ready because she impulsively thought about a relationship with someone, realized it was wrong and that's just it.

I don't think it's your problem really.

If you're rly interested in her then try one more time. Give it a few days or so, talk with other girls then ask her for another date. If she agrees then good, if no then forget it, it aint gonna happen. If she ever says yes for a second date, ask her what happened that day as she seemed off and down, so yeah try to atleast get closure :P

TLDR: High chance that she just felt guilty and still not over her ex

Saiyenblood1 · 2020-05-24T01:38:27+00:00

All I can think of is that maybe your pictures looked better online ? Like she seemed to have connected better before you guys met. Or perhaps you said something or a joke of some sort that didn’t go well with her . Either way only she would know.

Saiyenblood1 · 2020-05-24T01:50:50+00:00

I’m afraid so. Sorry bud. A learning experience

quinnmcd · 2020-05-24T04:15:04+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

Title	What Happened?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	May 23, 2020 7:08 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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