I have been talking to this girl for about a month and half and i really like her. She broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years (on and off) 3 months ago. He is still trying to get back with her but she is over him. He's actually Harassing her to the point where she had to change her number, get a new car, and file a police report. We have hung out a multiple times and I finally kissed her last week. My number one rule is don't be with someone who just got out of a relationship. I fucking broke it. We talked and I told her how I feel and that I never do what I am doing now. She told she likes me and wants something to come out of this but not yet. Pretty much said we are just going with the flow. I like her a lot but I can only go with the flow for so long. Worst part is that I am best friends with her brother. My gut is telling me to walk away. I am really confused and don't know what to do or how to approach it.