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This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
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[–]Paarth_r 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
How does a poly relation work ? I'm quite intrigued by such relations. Does it still remain as meaningful as a monogamous relationship ?
[–]Cantankerous20ish 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What is meaningful? Is it honesty? Then yes. We have attraction to other people. She’s already partnered with someone. But we still have love and attraction to each other. We also understand that there are things we can’t provide for one another, and we’re not going to force each other to change to suit a “perfect” life. Always happy to elaborate though!
[–]Paarth_r 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Then the concept and question of having that ' I want to wake up next to you and be with you life long ' and the idea of having a marriage Dosent happen right ? It's love, might be true love but it can't the the type when compared to what I typed above. Do correct me if wrong.
[–]Cantankerous20ish 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We’re deeply in love and can’t stand time away from each other. She feels the same about her partner. We allow ourselves our urges. We would love to get married, were it allowed (currently only legal in like one county in Massachusetts haha). It’s more a redefinition. I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but that doesn’t mean it has to be solely with her
[–]Paarth_r 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's a pretty interesting concept. Glad you're enjoying it.
[–]Cantankerous20ish 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha thanks. It’s fantastic so far
[–]Paarth_r 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No insecurity and sense of possessiveness ? There two things have always amazed me.
And if you were to ask yourself what is the thing about you that attracts women, what would it be ?
[–]Cantankerous20ish 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
That’s the thing - for me it’s random. I’d say I’m pretty physically attractive. I have moments of being charismatic and seductive, but those are rare. I’m not unintelligent, but I don’t display it in attractive way.
[–]Paarth_r 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So you want to basically show your intelligence which you have in an attractive way and you've been having a hard time doing it. Am I right ?
[–]Cantankerous20ish 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No, more language based. I’d like to learn mental technique and framework for talking based on situation, whether the person is a PhD holder or a knownothing beauty. Approach and mindset, etc
[–]Paarth_r 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well watch David Deangelo ( spelling error ). Videos of RSD on YouTube. Mystery and style videos. Yeah they're pretty common in the pua community but you can learn a lot. Ultimately every situation will require a different type of approach. So instead of knowing the ' Framework ' persay and Remembering it ( fr eg - if girl did ABC, I will say xzy ) , you can understand what makes the framework run. Like understand the raw materials and create your own product. If you get what I mean.
[–]Cantankerous20ish 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The latter of what you described is what I’m looking to learn. Not an equation of abc results in xyz response. Understand the stuff in between the cracks
Go on pirate bay, type Pua. Download everthing that comes up. Watch and read all of it. You'll be in much much better position than you are rn. Also red a book called - the art of seduction. I can't stress enough about how important this book is.
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