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[–]theninthnuclearman 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have to sacrifice yourself and your needy needs and completely focus on everything else than your aching and weeping dick-stick. Take a period of time like two years or so where you don't focus on getting that laid at all and then just observe how others act in social situations and make mild conclusions about them. You have to forgive yourself every failure you make, even not taking action. You have to figure out what you have plentifully offer to the world and then start being proud of that. After you have got people to be really interested in you, which will happen later when you are a human being, you know it when you "work on yourself" and put yourself in various situations only then you can start thinking about flirting with someone and so on.
"But I am ready to fuck bitches!? How do you mean work on myself?!" You my man are far from ready to anything like that. So verdict, forget your dick, fap if you need to, if you get a chance to do sexual stuff but fail, forgive yourself and carry on. You have to be able to offer value, even if it's just keeping up an interesting conversation. Also usually it doesn't come from just reading self help. Fiction has got your back much better. In my opinion for every book you read there should be about 1/10 of self help and 9/10 of fiction.
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