I'm not sure if this is legal or whatever, but I'm planning to go out this week and I needed pointers. Hopefully it's alright if I xpost... I didn't get any replies for 9 days :(

I've been reading seddit on and off for a couple of weeks now, and while the whole seduction community seems rather interesting and I respect the amount of work, it never really fully clicked with me, learning techniques and trying to change "from the outside". I guess you could say I'm working on inner game, becoming confident with myself and the rest seems to fall slowly into place.

It has fallen pretty much into place that whenever I go out and hit the dancefloor attractive girls will come over. One ever just straight up came up to me and asked me to go back to my place. I somehow managed to decline because I thought she was too young (I'm 24yr old by the way, she looked like she was 18ish).

I've noticed that if I just go on the dancefloor and smile and have a shitload of fun, I get approached. I think my previous kung fu training has allowed me with the fluidity of my movement, so I just tend to flow, and the alcohol+theanine help me relax even further. I also find it's a lot easier if there are douchebags around, since they seem to hoard around the group of girls, where I'll just dance and pretend I'm Snoop Dogg and smile and dance smooth.

So anyway, usually, they'd come over, flip their hair and start rubbing themselves against me. At first I was rather hesitant with the whole thing, but recently things have gotten more physical and I've managed to make out, neck kissing and whatnot. I'm just not sure what to do next. Just ask for sex straight up? Go outside and chat? How do I know they're not just there to have fun dancing with strangers?

I was also wondering if it's wise to be lightly caressing the inside of the wrists/forearms along with the neck kissing and light biting.

Last time the girl accidentally bumped me twice in the head with her drink and I replied with a huge grin "Hey, this is your second strike, three strikes and you're out" which I thought was kinda funny. She apologized and making out on the dancefloor ensued.

So yeah, I feel like I'm so close yet so far away, and I think it's mostly because of me being inexperienced with the vagina (even though theoretically I've had lengthy conversations about the whole process with certain close female friends who seem to think I get laid).

TLDR; I can easily get comfortable and physical on the dancefloor, however I seem to lock up when it comes to getting laid.

I apologize in advance if there's posting etiquette I've missed. edit: I've read some of the FAQs, but I wanted to ask the specific question because I've been "in the zone" for the last two weeks and I want to push it (in) further.