(long time lurker, first time poster, so be nice!) Today a lady co-worker was telling me a story about how her husband was taking forever doing something blah blah as I was listening I was trying to think of how I could put this back on her, because she was doing something very typical of the ladies, blaming someone else. This is what I came up with: "You know...(pause).......this is completely your fault don't you?" (Smile) and then twisted it so was responsible for enabling her husband to do this. It can be used playfully in many many different situations and it's a nice neg because it puts them in a situation where you call them out on something (like a boss!) and they have to then validate themselves to you. Could also use it as a conversation opener if you miss and elevator, taxi, train.... If you get lost going somewhere.....When you wind up naked in her bed (funny!)..... Just wanted to share something with a community that has given me so much and and enabled me to undergo some serious growth, thanks seddit!!